ABOUT ME

Welcome and thank you for visiting my website.

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I am a trained therapist with a passion for sexual healing.

 

I write from my heart, I am very passionate, and believe in humility, integrity and honesty in all areas of life.  I had a highly dysfunctional upbringing with interrupted school attendance, and I also have dyslexia, which means I have difficulty with written communication; please forgive me if you notice errors in my writing.  

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QUALIFICATIONS & EXPERIENCE

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I am a fully qualified advanced Emotional Freedom Technique Therapist, I have a degree in Psychology and a PGCE in secondary education, I am a Reiki Master-Teacher and Birth re-imprinting practitioner.  I have a broad range of experience working with people with both sexual and non-sexual issues. Areas I have worked in include:

Rape and sexual abuse, difficulty finding or conducting romantic/sexual relationships, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, attraction to children (paedophilia), sex, porn, escort addiction, other addictions, loneliness, stress, anxiety and insomnia.

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MY CHILDHOOD

 

I had a highly unusual upbringing in near slum conditions with parents who were extremely dysfunctional. However, despite the mental health issues they both had, they cared for us deeply.  I also experienced different forms of child sex abuse, from people outside my family.

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Due to my unconventional upbringing I decided to take a more conventional route, studying psychology at university and then progressing into secondary school teaching.  However, I found this stressful, triggering childhood traumas, which lead to a mental breakdown, and the end of my teaching career.  

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My upbringing gave me a very unconventional way of looking at life, and I also had a strong interest in spirituality, and sexuality, in addition to psychology.  I think it was these things that were part of the reason I took the somewhat unusual step of becoming a cam model and therapist (sexual performance and therapy carried out online for male clients).  This proved highly revealing of male sexuality and psychology, so much so that I am currently collecting data on human sexual behaviour from this work, having over 1000 client records (see research data).

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I have found that the challenging experiences of my life, my study, training, experience and qualifications, my spirituality, and the unconventional work I carryout online, has given me a deep and unique insight into human psychology.  All this has lead me to where I am today as a therapist; passionate about my work, and outside of the box in my approach and understanding.  I bring answers to people when they have told me conventional therapies have failed.